Why are Indian parents so ashamed of the human body idk. I have had multiple instances where my mom has romanticized Caucasian women with toned chests because most dresses flatter them without it being too vulgar. And I must wear looser clothes because my big boobs are "dirty". It's not just my mom but literally every Indian aunty out there. They slut shame natural body anatomy like wtf. Underwire bras exist for support and nothing else. And I was accused of wanting to appear "fuller". I m ... Big boobs girl want small boobs , small girl wants big boobs , but a guy only need boobs …any kind of boobs trueafter talking to some friends, i decided to look into those instagram thrift shops and opt for sustainable/slow fashion but all the ones I have seen are not very size inclusive. full disclosure, im an average sized woman with a big bust, and all these ig shops don't have free sizes/one size, it's always 30-34 inch bust measurement. I want to spend under 1k and also shop sustainably, what do I do? Where do y'all shop from?? Then I met my first real boyfriend who loved my breasts because big boobs are sexy. So he encouraged me to wear clothes that showed them off. So this was the era of fitted and low cut dresses and the idea that my breasts are a part of my personality and a sexual object. Then came the pandemic and I actually gained weight being stuck at home.
